從教材中也透露出“男主動女被動”的模式。如此，只會使兩性間難以平等互動，對於傳統性文化卻一直存有雙重的標準。要求女性婚前保有貞操，婚後忠實；卻沒有對男性提出同等要求。加上台灣社會中處女價值不斷被吹噓，無形中強化了女性對性無謂的恐懼及壓抑。所以處女情結不但反映出男女不平等的現實，同時亦否定了女性追求情慾自主的空間。而傳統性別角色的強化，不但打壓了非傳統婦女，也忽略男性所應擔負的職責。其中非但加重職業婦女的心理壓力，也為真正思考及對傳統性別角色的反省。
Where the Hell Does Disney Find All These Damn Virgins???June 6th, 2008 by Evil Beet
我的天阿...
這個世界...
看了真是感慨...
如果有人再問我:為啥你下輩子想當男生而不想當女生?
我就要回答:
X你X的XXXX 沒長長眼睛看看這個世界阿
X你的處女情結
X你的男女大平等
我是不是該學學selena去跟上帝簽署virgin條約?
2009年2月3日 星期二
To A Special Person
These days, I keep introspecting over our relationship.
I really tried hard to figure out what happened, but what I figured out is that I am, yeah, kind of in love with you.
You remember that psychology test for liking and loving?
I lied to you.
I lied to you because I don't understand myself and this affection I've never experienced before.
The result was actually "I love you, but I don't like you."
However, I thought I wasn't into you and stabbed you that I loved you but I wasn't in love with you.
This is totally a mistake.
I confess now that I'm really in love with you, which is unfortunately the last thing I'd say to you.
What I can do now is...
I make a promise to myself, secretly, for you.
Maybe after a few years, we'll probably meet each other again.
At that time, we'd be totally different, or maybe, only a little things change.
Then, we'll fall in love with each other again---a new love lasting for the rest of our lives.
I'm sorry for you.
I'm sorry for both of us.
Well, I love you, and I really do.
But I can't fight anymore for you.
I don't know maybe we'll be together again sometime in another life.
But the pain is done, so we still have to go on.
Just let time soothe our pain and see what happens.
I really tried hard to figure out what happened, but what I figured out is that I am, yeah, kind of in love with you.
You remember that psychology test for liking and loving?
I lied to you.
I lied to you because I don't understand myself and this affection I've never experienced before.
The result was actually "I love you, but I don't like you."
However, I thought I wasn't into you and stabbed you that I loved you but I wasn't in love with you.
This is totally a mistake.
I confess now that I'm really in love with you, which is unfortunately the last thing I'd say to you.
What I can do now is...
I make a promise to myself, secretly, for you.
Maybe after a few years, we'll probably meet each other again.
At that time, we'd be totally different, or maybe, only a little things change.
Then, we'll fall in love with each other again---a new love lasting for the rest of our lives.
I'm sorry for you.
I'm sorry for both of us.
Well, I love you, and I really do.
But I can't fight anymore for you.
I don't know maybe we'll be together again sometime in another life.
But the pain is done, so we still have to go on.
Just let time soothe our pain and see what happens.
我對宗教的想法
宗教...真是個有趣的現象...
根據國中課本,可以發現:人類文化發展和宗教觀念的發展是息息相關的
宗教甚至在人類史前文明的早期就開始占有一席之地
至於我個人...不會去反對這種東西
但是當我上大學後有了被教會的人死纏爛打的經驗之後
我真的忍不住手癢要寫下這幾句個人見解:
宗教 在我的認知裡
呈現了一種自我的面向
有點像Freud的superego
有道德超脫,甚至有超能力的感覺
甚至可以說是人生追求的目標
一個典範.一種可能
這就是為甚麼
每當教會的人費盡心思跟我說明請God進入我心來使我的人生計畫得以實現時
我都會回嗆:
喔?我就這樣把王位讓給他嗎?為啥沒有我跟他談判的空間?"我"才是實現人生計畫的重點人物吧!"我"才是God的化身吧(以人生計畫的觀點來說)
唉...只能說
這些宗教狂熱份子的智慧是我無法理解的:P
根據國中課本,可以發現:人類文化發展和宗教觀念的發展是息息相關的
宗教甚至在人類史前文明的早期就開始占有一席之地
至於我個人...不會去反對這種東西
但是當我上大學後有了被教會的人死纏爛打的經驗之後
我真的忍不住手癢要寫下這幾句個人見解:
宗教 在我的認知裡
呈現了一種自我的面向
有點像Freud的superego
有道德超脫,甚至有超能力的感覺
甚至可以說是人生追求的目標
一個典範.一種可能
這就是為甚麼
每當教會的人費盡心思跟我說明請God進入我心來使我的人生計畫得以實現時
我都會回嗆:
喔?我就這樣把王位讓給他嗎?為啥沒有我跟他談判的空間?"我"才是實現人生計畫的重點人物吧!"我"才是God的化身吧(以人生計畫的觀點來說)
唉...只能說
這些宗教狂熱份子的智慧是我無法理解的:P
2009年1月16日 星期五
A Letter in Reply to My Dearest "Friend"
I still persist that I delete everything between us.
This is just a short quote of the real letter, but it would be enough to memorize our recent conditions.
It should be one of my dearest, although a little painful, memories throughout life, so I decided to quote some of it for myself:
I lose my way, and it’s not too long before you point it out.
I cannot cry, because I know that’s weakness in your eyes.
I watched you die.
I heard you cry every night in your sleep. (Actually, it is too exaggerated…for me. Not my own lyrics. Don’t misunderstand.> <)
I was so young. (Look! WAS!)
You should have known better than to lean on me. (Wonderful lyric! This is what I’m saying here)
You never thought of anyone else.
You just saw your pain. (In your latest letter, at least half of your content include only: “Don’t don’t don’t leave me. Care for me.”)
This is just a short quote of the real letter, but it would be enough to memorize our recent conditions.
It should be one of my dearest, although a little painful, memories throughout life, so I decided to quote some of it for myself:
I lose my way, and it’s not too long before you point it out.
I cannot cry, because I know that’s weakness in your eyes.
I watched you die.
I heard you cry every night in your sleep. (Actually, it is too exaggerated…for me. Not my own lyrics. Don’t misunderstand.> <)
I was so young. (Look! WAS!)
You should have known better than to lean on me. (Wonderful lyric! This is what I’m saying here)
You never thought of anyone else.
You just saw your pain. (In your latest letter, at least half of your content include only: “Don’t don’t don’t leave me. Care for me.”)
2008年11月23日 星期日
Oooh~~~I am a BASS
Well, I usually am a bass and I'd like to be a bass.
In a choir and a band, I am a bass.
In the real world, I am a bass, and this "bass" has two different meanings---One is the one I already am, and the other one is the one I would really WANT to be.
The bass is used for the foundation of a matter, and is very important but is lack of much public attention.
Yes, I am always quiet and do the background work and I'm proud of my modesty.
But after I enter the college, oh my god, I'm NEGLECTED.
In times that I can help, I want to earn the respect from others and be treated as a Bass1, which means that I will take the load and lead the whole thing in a specific direction and simultaneously, not really hold the superficial title until the title really needs me.
Now I'm going to be a real bass, which is a pretty nice thing, to control all the game but not to hurt or get hurt in many trivial things.
In a choir and a band, I am a bass.
In the real world, I am a bass, and this "bass" has two different meanings---One is the one I already am, and the other one is the one I would really WANT to be.
The bass is used for the foundation of a matter, and is very important but is lack of much public attention.
Yes, I am always quiet and do the background work and I'm proud of my modesty.
But after I enter the college, oh my god, I'm NEGLECTED.
In times that I can help, I want to earn the respect from others and be treated as a Bass1, which means that I will take the load and lead the whole thing in a specific direction and simultaneously, not really hold the superficial title until the title really needs me.
Now I'm going to be a real bass, which is a pretty nice thing, to control all the game but not to hurt or get hurt in many trivial things.
Fairness & Justice
Jouney to Hell!!!
Why people always seek the actions against evolution? Or in a modest term, why people always try to speed up the rate of evolution?
Including the idea of medicine and the foundation of fairness and justice, humans keep fight against the nature.
Nature favors the stronger, and in the nature LAWS, we should let it be just it should be.
However, being a human and a future doctor, I believe many will expect me to fight.
I really wonder if there are any other species on earth favors fighting against nature.
Look, Epola and AIDS appears to block our crazy actions.
Look, there is never a perfect way to treat everybody well and fairly in Jouney to Hell(maybe Journey of Life?).
Is fighting against evolution really a high-class shot?
We'll recieve more letters of challenge from heavon to hell, and from humans to gods.
Why people always seek the actions against evolution? Or in a modest term, why people always try to speed up the rate of evolution?
Including the idea of medicine and the foundation of fairness and justice, humans keep fight against the nature.
Nature favors the stronger, and in the nature LAWS, we should let it be just it should be.
However, being a human and a future doctor, I believe many will expect me to fight.
I really wonder if there are any other species on earth favors fighting against nature.
Look, Epola and AIDS appears to block our crazy actions.
Look, there is never a perfect way to treat everybody well and fairly in Jouney to Hell(maybe Journey of Life?).
Is fighting against evolution really a high-class shot?
We'll recieve more letters of challenge from heavon to hell, and from humans to gods.
Distances & Responsibilities
Being an adult should be a proud thing.
But it is not true.
When you finally grow up enough to be an adult, you are going to say goodbye forever to those fairy tale days.
Instead, you are facing a lot of heavy tasks, especially for the jobs I'll hold.
Actually, everyday I gotta face a bunch of problems about dealing with the distances for human relationship and the life-related responsibilities.
Yeah, I'm not REALLY old enough to face with the saving-life matters, but being a college student---especially a med one, I work hard but still don't get the essence of keeping the RIGHT distances with people around me.
Sometimes, I feel that I'm quite a popular hotshot.
But in most of the cases, I don't really get into the situation, which disables me to seek the pathway into human beings---I don't get WHAT THEY ARE THINKING ABOUT.
I make friends, but quite few real ones.
When I start to think about all this, I almost go nuts.
How close should we be? To what degree of alert should I keep?
What I should be careful for, others' interaction matters or the affections and trust for that person?
Maybe I never believe people, and I try to do the reverse.
I wish and I will get hurt some other time.
Everybody NEEDS to get hurt for some degree, so that he can live a relatively longer and happier life.
But here, I hope I don't get hurt from those close friends of mine, and this is not possible.
"I drew a line and wish that nobody will pass through, but that is only a minor wish not long before the day that people break through it."
But it is not true.
When you finally grow up enough to be an adult, you are going to say goodbye forever to those fairy tale days.
Instead, you are facing a lot of heavy tasks, especially for the jobs I'll hold.
Actually, everyday I gotta face a bunch of problems about dealing with the distances for human relationship and the life-related responsibilities.
Yeah, I'm not REALLY old enough to face with the saving-life matters, but being a college student---especially a med one, I work hard but still don't get the essence of keeping the RIGHT distances with people around me.
Sometimes, I feel that I'm quite a popular hotshot.
But in most of the cases, I don't really get into the situation, which disables me to seek the pathway into human beings---I don't get WHAT THEY ARE THINKING ABOUT.
I make friends, but quite few real ones.
When I start to think about all this, I almost go nuts.
How close should we be? To what degree of alert should I keep?
What I should be careful for, others' interaction matters or the affections and trust for that person?
Maybe I never believe people, and I try to do the reverse.
I wish and I will get hurt some other time.
Everybody NEEDS to get hurt for some degree, so that he can live a relatively longer and happier life.
But here, I hope I don't get hurt from those close friends of mine, and this is not possible.
"I drew a line and wish that nobody will pass through, but that is only a minor wish not long before the day that people break through it."
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